Getting “In Sync” With Your Life Purpose
March 7, 2011
Whisper Message
Getting in sync with your life purpose, that is, fully living in alignment with what you really desire to do and be, means fully accepting the part of you that resists your life purpose. Resistance shows you your unique way to carry out your life purpose, unless you let it stop you cold. Vanessa experienced this first-hand and tells you how her “life lesson” almost put the brakes on her experience of inspiration.
Vanessa & LaRue
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March 7th, 2011 at 4:55 am
hi vanessa,
thanks for a wonderful message. i think my life purpose is to demonstrate living an authentic life. can that be a life purpose? a fearless life. and ofcourse my life lesson seems to be about fear. im learning to trust myself. currently im at a transition point in my life…and im afraid i dont have any clue of what i need to do next in my life. my quesions are how do i use the whisper for this? how do i use kineseology for this? any other way? beth davies life purpose hand analysis is beyond expensive for me. thanks for helping and thanks for being a wonderful messenger
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Vanessa Reply:
March 8th, 2011 at 6:52 pm
Anu, to demonstrate living an authentic life can absolutely be part of your life purpose. I really understand that transition point you are in and how it feels like you don’t have a clue, I’ve been there. As I look back, though, I can see I was always guided by the sensations and experiences of guidance… and so are you my dear. The thing is you may be afraid to see the clues, since you say fear is a life lesson. So if you weren’t afraid of anything what would you desire? What energizes you? What experiences have you had when you felt inspiration, delight? Start there pulling up the sensations of guidance and begin to feel into your dream. Lots more coming on this so hang in there! Thank you for writing. V
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March 7th, 2011 at 10:26 am
Thanks for the message Vanessa. I believe my life purpose is whatever activity that I am engaged in at the moment. Each moment is leading me to the next Bigger Moment.
There is so much wisdom in every moment as I am beginning to notice. I think I am the voice of reason. I take difficult concepts and break them down in ways for a person of average intelligence could understand. There’s a certain melody to my voice when I speak.
I’m just beginning to embrace but its a joy to know that I am here to have such a wonderful experience.
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Vanessa Reply:
March 8th, 2011 at 7:00 pm
You are most welcome Rickey. So glad to hear you are finding wisdom in every moment. Your life purpose may be to offer and simplify profound messages to the masses through speaking. It’s up to you to decide on the message… we want to hear your beautiful voice! And YES you are here to experience joy, so glad you are embracing that. V
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March 7th, 2011 at 2:37 pm
Hi!
I have known since I was 2 years old that I wanted to heal people. As a child, I would say I wanted to be a doctor, but since a few years ago I figured out that I am passionate about alternative medicine. The problem is, is that I can’t seem to quite my spirit enough to figure out which way I need to follow to start learning how to heal. Part of me keeps thinking of my childhood dream and another part of me tells me that nursing and then specialising in the natural healing fields is a good idea too. Is there a way in kinesiology to really tell which direction I need to take to follow my life purpose? I have to admit I am afraid to make a mistake. Thank you for your help and for your messages!!!
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Vanessa Reply:
March 8th, 2011 at 7:38 pm
Hi Brittany, you are a healer, and whether you heal through nursing or another field depends on your dream. How was your 2 yr old self healing others? What energizes you, fills you with inspiration? Kinesiology can give you very specific information about your life purpose as that is your intrinsic blueprint already established in you, but it cannot predict an outcome as that outcome doesn’t exist yet. First heal the fear you’ll do this wrong.Then make a list of all the healing modalities that interest you, include all you can think of and also add one called ‘not on this list’. Breathe. Empty your mind. Allow your eyes to gently and slowly scan the list and feel which ones attract you, resonate, inspire you, excite you. Circle the ones that pull your attention. For each one circled, ask your Whisper, what do I do next? Whatever it is get started… we need your healing. And keep us posted, okay?
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March 7th, 2011 at 2:38 pm
Sorry I just wanted to correct: not quite my spirit, but my mind.
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Vanessa Reply:
March 8th, 2011 at 7:38 pm
good catch:)
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March 9th, 2011 at 10:42 am
Vanessa, thank you. I love the simple ‘unprepped’ feel of this message, it speaks very clearly to me. I believe my life purpose to be somewhere around making space for the ‘ahha!’ moments, points of clarity and new understanding. But I have a chronic health issue which limits my ability to concentrate, to travel, to function at all. So I guess this might be my life lesson? Hmm, I feel quite ‘stuck’ by this.
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Vanessa Reply:
March 9th, 2011 at 11:54 am
Hi Carol, yes our life lesson will certainly make us feel stuck…and that feels really uncomfortable, doesn’t it? Yet, the juicy part of purpose is in the life lesson… so, using your words, what is your new understanding of the chronic health issue? How has this chronic issue provided “aha” moments? You may be limited in concentration yet where have you received more clarity? Keep looking for the moments of guidance… can’t concentrate, good do finger-painting, can’t travel good, go pick flowers… get it? There will be more on this,so stay in touch, okay?
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March 9th, 2011 at 11:27 am
SO GREAT to see you right in the midst of your inspiration, Vanessa! I miss seeing that in person and video is the next best way to see it – you were literally bouncing/dancing around sharing this with us. Of course, as always, this was particularly timely for me to hear – you so graciously helped me see that my life lesson is “not enough” and appears along with whatever I do to fulfill my life purpose of making a public impact in the healing arts. “Not enough” IS an illusion and yet to me, it seems so very real. I remember your voice telling me to just acknowledge my life lesson by saying something like “oh, there you are again, I know you” and then just continuing on with my work. So many examples of how “seemingly not enough” turned magically into “plenty” for me! Such abundance right on the other side of that illusion of not enough. Facing another such example today, so THANK YOU for the reminder! I love you, my special messenger! nancy
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Vanessa Reply:
March 10th, 2011 at 7:05 pm
Always good to hear from you Nancy. Here’s the way I look at this now, if it didn’t feel real, there wouldn’t be any lesson in it. Just moments ago, while shooting the video for the next weekly whisper, Sterling sticks his head in the door asking me to do something…aarrgh… the studio lights are glaring, I’m dressed up, the door is closed… isn’t it obvious I’m recording!!! Oh… oops there it is again … family out of sync …
So glad you are finding you are plenty and truly more than enough… go get a box of “good and plenty” candy and put it somewhere handy, and then eat one every time you have the thought you are not enough. 
personally, I don’t like those candies…so if I had to eat them… shivers.
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nancy Reply:
March 14th, 2011 at 4:54 pm
HA! I HATE good and plenty candy! Now I understand why! I might still get a box and put it in front of my computer just for laughs!
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March 9th, 2011 at 2:17 pm
Thanks for this. I particularly like the tone and content of the comments and replies below the video.
Although I’m a grandfather now, I still don’t know what I want to do when I grow up. However I do feel that I’m on the right path.
Having thought about this video and the comments, it occurs to me that perhaps my life lesson has something to do with ‘obligations’ to my birth family. Perhaps it is my false sense of responsibility, but I seem to get saddled with doing various things for the family and this can annoy and restrict me.
So thanks again…. I had never really thought about my family hassles being a possible lesson. Maybe I am about to have a breakthrough in understanding.
Best wishes from New Zealand…. Stephen Coote.
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Vanessa Reply:
March 10th, 2011 at 7:20 pm
Hi Stephen, it sounds like you love doing things for your family… sure it’s annoying, but perhaps for you it is more your life purpose, not your lesson… why do I say this, even though you used the words ‘saddled’ and ‘obligation’? Because you start off saying you are a grandfather. Big clue. Do you identify yourself with your family? Talk about them, worry about them, help and support them? This may not be a false sense of responsibility, but a very real purpose of responsibility. The family purpose is what sits on the left thumb. Mine is in life lesson, but yours may be life purpose. The feeling of restriction may be due in part to a desire to do something with your ‘larger’ family, the community or world. Sit with it. Let me know. And I love being with you all the way from New Zealand. Thank you.
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Stephen Coote Reply:
March 13th, 2011 at 5:29 pm
Thanks Vanessa, that is good food for thought. And yes, I certainly cherish the idea of contributing to the larger family.
I don’t know if the image will be sufficient for you, but I thought I’d try to show you a picture of my left thumb. I will be interested to read your comments if you have time to write some. No problem if you don’t.
Here’s my left thumb:
http://i61.photobucket.com/albums/h71/kiwicoote/StephenLeftThumb.jpg
Left Hand:
http://i61.photobucket.com/albums/h71/kiwicoote/StephenLeftHand.jpg
Right thumb:
http://i61.photobucket.com/albums/h71/kiwicoote/StephenRightThumb.jpg
Right hand:
http://i61.photobucket.com/albums/h71/kiwicoote/StephenRightHand.jpg
Best wishes…. Stephen.
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Vanessa Reply:
March 13th, 2011 at 11:28 pm
Hi Stephen, I will try to put these in a photo scanner to enlarge the fingerprints. Please send a pic of your right thumb. Also, next week go to http://www.purposeyourlife.com and submit your email to get on my life purpose list.
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Stephen Coote Reply:
March 14th, 2011 at 1:29 am
Thanks Vanessa…. I’ve subscribed at ‘purposeyourlife’.
Hey… don’t go to any trouble in checking out my hands. I’d be very interested to get your thoughts, but don’t let it hold you back from anything else more important.
I will have a go at adding a photo of my right thumb directly here:
[img]http://i61.photobucket.com/albums/h71/kiwicoote/StephenRightThumb2.jpg[/img]
If the image hasn’t appeared, here is a link to the image of my right thumb at Photobucket:
http://i61.photobucket.com/albums/h71/kiwicoote/StephenRightThumb2.jpg
I also took a close-up of my fingerprints:
Left fingers:
http://i61.photobucket.com/albums/h71/kiwicoote/StephenLeftFingers2.jpg
Right fingers:
http://i61.photobucket.com/albums/h71/kiwicoote/StephenRightFingers2.jpg
I look foward to your next post here…. and to see what happens at your new ‘Purpose’ site.
Best wishes…. and thanks….. Stephen Coote.
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March 10th, 2011 at 7:15 pm
Thank you, Vanessa. Your message was clearly inspired, and inspiring. I’m having trouble verbalizing the insight you just gave me — it’s still processing — but I wanted to comment because it’s the first time I’ve seen a relationship between my current ‘purpose: a hunger to explore far-afield, learn about other cultures and teach as part of humanitarian work abroad AND — on the other hand — my lifelong tendency to get stuck in indecisiveness. I see now the polarity — the joy of discovering something NEW and the torture of believing or feeling “I don’t know enough yet.” Hmmmmm. Is this my life lesson? Hope this makes a little sense!!
My thanks, again, to you and LaRue for the work you do.
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Vanessa Reply:
March 11th, 2011 at 1:35 pm
Hi Ruth, it makes perfect sense to me. And thank you for your courage in trying to express this. The good news is the indecisiveness is NOT going to go away. This is good news because now you can know that and still make inspired and guided decisions. You’ll always know enough to take the very next step… but probably not everything, I mean how is that possible, right? But you will get amazing feedback and information as soon as you step into your great work teaching abroad. Begin small… but begin. You can start with wondering “hmmm I wonder how to begin feeding my hunger to work abroad.” Oh the miracles that come with wondering! keep us posted.
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