Can’t Hear Your Whisper?
Many of our readers and subscribers tell us they are getting better and better at recognizing, trusting, and following the Whisper. They are feeling more confident in discerning the sensations of inner guidance and are trusting those sensations and taking guided actions. We are getting letters daily telling us how their life is changing as they develop trust in their inner wisdom.
Yet, even for those who are becoming more practiced, there are still one or two areas they feel stuck in and unable to know for sure if what they are discerning is inner guidance or “something else”. We call that something else the voice of disguise. It kinda sorta sounds like your Whisper, but the sensations are not expansive or peaceful.
THERE’S A BELIEF IN THE WAY
If this is what you are experiencing it’s because there is a belief in the way that you may not even know you have. Recognizing the sensations of guidance is easy, but if you have a belief operating underneath your level of awareness, then it will mask or block those sensations, and you may find it difficult to hear your inner guidance. Beliefs are funny like that. Their purpose is to help you navigate your life using your past experiences and perceptions as your guide. And since they are based on your past experiences they always feel true to you. That’s why you often don’t even know they are there.These beliefs have become your “self-talk” and are so familiar to you they feel natural to you, albeit uncomfortable and often painful.
Your essential Whisper will tell you the truth. But if what it tells you does not match what you believe then the gatekeeper of your mind won’t let it in.
If you are feeling “stuck” in any area of your life (money, health, relationships, goals, etc.) then you have a limiting belief operating. We listed over 100 limiting beliefs on this page, here are a few:
- I don’t know what I want
- I need to have a plan
- My dreams never come true
- I have to work hard to make money
- I’m not creative
- I am inadequate
- I have to get this right
- I am afraid
- I cannot make commitments
- I have to be right
- I am always wrong
- My husband (wife, mother, father) does not understand me
- If I go for my dream, I’ll lose the security of what I already have
- Something is missing
- I don’t know my life’s purpose
HOW TO REMOVE THE BELIEFS THAT BLOCK YOU FROM HEARING INNER GUIDANCE
FIRST, you must recognize that you are listening to a belief or thought and not your Whisper.
“The simple test: ask yourself how you feel when you think a thought. If you feel discomfort, tension, anger, pain, irritability, resentment, shame, guilt, sadness, worry, or fear you have a belief that is stressful and not true. This is the Whisper’s way of letting you know that you are not listening.” YEW page 88
SECOND, ask your Whisper to show you what to do next. Get quiet and wait for your Whisper to offer your next step. It will come in one of the distinct experiences or in one or more of the interactions (synchronicity, dreams, words, symbols, etc. Chapter 14).
STILL FEELING STUCK?
The above practice will help you knock out many of your beliefs and open you to listening to inner guidance more and more. But there are times when you just can’t seem to make any progress in a certain area.
One woman came to Vanessa with an old issue around having a more loving relationship with her daughter. Her life in every other area was fulfilling and full. In fact, it was confusing to her how she could have such wonderful relationships with co-workers, students, church members, and friends, but not with her own daughter. This deeply saddened her and was very stressful.
In her Evo-K (Evolutionary Kinesiology) session with Vanessa, which was conducted by phone, this laser-like approach quickly identified the beliefs she had that kept her from unconditionally loving herself and her daughter. In less than an hour those beliefs were neutralized.
If you are feeling stuck, not sure if you are hearing guidance, or have an ongoing chronic or stressful situation, stop struggling and make an appointment for an Evo-K session with either LaRue or Vanessa. Or, by visiting www.Evo-K.com you can get a list of certified facilitators. Once long-held patterns and beliefs are dislodged you will find it easier and easier to recognize resistance and listen to your sweet inner voice.